I hope giving your wife plenty of room to be who she needs to be without guilt or judgement has given you a sense of relief; her response isn't about you. The reason I reckon we made the right call, is that anecdotally, the younger the kids, the less of a deal it is. Telling your wife is mostly about your sexuality, but it's also about her response. Thankyou for adding your support for Steven, I appreciate you sharing your story, helps me too. Hey Tom, Thanks from me as well for sharing your story. When you split up with your wife how much time did you spend with the kids?
To keep the body from acting on these impulses, the brain sends out a signal that paralyses the body. I understand this idea very well because it describes me, though no one in my field would ever guess because I work as a psychiatrist. I relate to Joe's and all of your experiences very much. So I made my profiles, went on my mission to get solid evidence that couldn't be denied. Like saying hello to somebody I'm not too close with
I am female I did an online test and scored high, eeeeek! I was shaking I thought it was going to be a dating site did I say I was shaking just as I'm putting in his email address, he text me asking if he hopes I'm happy with what I found. In the note I asked her if the reason she left was because he was doing things to her. I feel like im in a sick twisted tv show and one day ill suddenly wake up and be ok.
You might want to talk to your GP too. I have also made several wonderful friends, one in particular who is also a parent though his kid is grown up , and he comes over for dinner and the kids adore him. Unfortunately, too many men allow their wives to own their sexual feelings. Emotions will cause future plans to be based on panic and what-if's. Now I can make up for lost time. I have no idea what I am going to do. Again, make it short and sensitive, then turn it back to how she feels.